A Claw for a Claw

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Last night, Kulot and I were tinkering with Facebook apps and we came across an interesting quiz titled ‘How Evil Are You’. She insisted that I take it, and assured me that it was certain as hell I would get the most evil-est score possible. After I took the quiz, what do you know, this was what I got:

Pure Evil and Pitch Black Darkness
OMG that was so funny, how can you get over pitch black darkness right? LOL. Though these quizzes on Facebook are no way standardized, I don’t think you can argue with it when we took another one, ‘Which Greek God Are You?’ and I landed as Ares God of War. Coinciding much? LOL. I was not surprised. I am Musang after all.
But seriously, I attribute my being somewhat princess from hell from my childhood. As a form of discipline, I was spanked. And if you remember the article ‘Spanking did not kill me’ buzz before, you can guess I have a lot to say about it, but of course, as you might’ve noticed, I do not like reacting to issues on their heat.
Obviously, spanking did not kill me, but built in me an idea ala the famous Hammurabi code. When I did something wrong, I was spanked. When I messed up, I was scolded. Of course, all the spanking and discipline measures made me the straight person I am today, to which I am grateful for, but as a side effect, I admit, it made me ‘cruel’.
The effect was an ideology that is built on justice: if something or someone goes and does something wrong, I strongly believe they should be punished for it, against all odds. It does not always entail hard feelings, but it is always necessary to give penance. I guess this is why I am short of pity for some patients I see in the hospital, if it was their own doing that got them there, then that’s that, they should deal with it.
If someone does me wrong, they should pay for it, and I would never be able to rest quietly until I get redemption. I can forgive, but without retribution, I just know I will never forget. It may sound harsh, but what people learned early on is difficult to unlearn. Punishment may be a strong word, but in a world divided, it is always necessary.
Certainly, spanking did not kill me, but it gives me an idea why I always get pure evil and pitch black darkness everytime I answer personality quizzes.









modern psychology says spanking of children damages the child’s psyche and in this part of the world, we’ve seen people arrested by police believe it or not for spanking their children in public ! But like you, i was spanked when I was a kid and I thought it taught me the meaning of discipline
Pero ngayon parang hindi ko mapalo ang daughter ko, I don’t know why… baka kasi papaluin din ako ng missis ko hehe
bw
July 29, 2009 at 7:33 pm
baka nga paluin ka niya LOL
prinsesamusang
July 30, 2009 at 8:29 pm
pure evil and pitch black darknes?? ahh si ate nga
ched
July 29, 2009 at 9:53 am
LOL ako nga.
prinsesamusang
July 29, 2009 at 6:02 pm
awts. natatakot na ako sa yo ate pm.
kidding..
chiquesan
July 28, 2009 at 7:05 pm
sa lahat ng nakakatakot ako lang ang maganda diba? LOL
prinsesamusang
July 29, 2009 at 6:03 pm
yay!
wala akong negative na comment! teka, ganda pala ng picture na una!
Ax
July 28, 2009 at 4:40 am
maganda talaga LOL bakit ax puro ka ba plus? LOL
prinsesamusang
July 28, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Hmn, this made me think kung ano kaya result if I take that quiz. Pero kailangan po muna akong magkaroon ng fb account. Wala pa kasi eh hehehe.
Nortehanon
July 27, 2009 at 10:09 pm
ako din wala pa eh makiaccount ka na lang sa mga kakilala mo.
prinsesamusang
July 28, 2009 at 4:45 pm
am 101% disapproving on the words, “forgive and forget”… its easy to say the words but its hard to put those into action…
btw, fb is cool, i recommend you make one PM… spread the war Ares…:) the war against evil..:D peace be with you…^_^
angelo...=)
July 27, 2009 at 8:11 pm
me against evil? that has got to be the weirdest thing i’ve ever heard.
prinsesamusang
July 28, 2009 at 4:44 pm
Oy, may bago akong official blog. Click mo na. Ilink mo na rin eto nato talaga! Woot Woot!
http://myrnblog.tumblr.com/
Richmond
July 27, 2009 at 4:18 pm
woot woot!
prinsesamusang
July 28, 2009 at 6:30 pm
ay takot naman ako. sige na nga…ganda ganda nya…
Mr. Nonsense
July 27, 2009 at 2:11 pm
LOL
prinsesamusang
July 27, 2009 at 6:41 pm
i’d register if only for these two quizzes you just took. btw, Ares is cool. haha.
mordsith
July 27, 2009 at 10:51 am
i don’t have a fb account. i only use my sister’s. maybe we should register? it is cool. LOL.
prinsesamusang
July 27, 2009 at 6:42 pm
Pure eviiiiiiil! I like.. *apir!* Haha.
I will be looking for that test later. I’ve never been spanked growing up… but why did I turn out evil still?
LOL.
cza
July 27, 2009 at 10:18 am
LOL maybe your evil is congenital.
prinsesamusang
July 27, 2009 at 6:42 pm
maybe if i would take that exam, i, too, will get that answer!
The Lady in Green Ruffles
July 27, 2009 at 7:26 am
ooohhh evil LOL
prinsesamusang
July 27, 2009 at 6:43 pm
yeah..ahaha
The Lady in Green Ruffles
July 28, 2009 at 6:55 am
I don’t take their quizzes eh, ma-try ko nga one time.
sheng
July 27, 2009 at 5:12 am
for fun lang naman eh LOL
prinsesamusang
July 27, 2009 at 6:43 pm
Punishing is something that should be done, I agree, but I’m not the type that is fond of physical punishment. It may be a consequence but I rather use psychological punishment. Something like ignore or simply do nothing to remedy the consequences.
Yah, this method probably have high chances of creating a monster too but…I never tried so I can’t really tell. Hope I don’t need to develop such method.
shadowmoon87
July 27, 2009 at 3:20 am
i don’t think i’m a monster though LOL
prinsesamusang
July 27, 2009 at 6:44 pm
The concept of monster is pretty relative.
And the way punishment affects people differs a lot so nothing can be really concluded definitively.
But if one can care about the others and not be completely cold toward the world I guess it’s the minimum needed to be able to insert into the society right?
shadowmoon87
July 29, 2009 at 8:39 am
i guess i would have to agree. btw, your paper cranes haven’t reached me yet!
prinsesamusang
July 29, 2009 at 6:04 pm
nyahaha
fb quizzes are hilarious
hehe
raft3r
July 26, 2009 at 6:43 pm
anong fb mo?
prinsesamusang
July 26, 2009 at 8:27 pm
Welcome to the club, Your Evil Highness… este Evil Heinous.
TK
July 26, 2009 at 6:24 pm
akala ko nga mabait na ko eh LOL
prinsesamusang
July 26, 2009 at 8:27 pm
so you’re the goddess of war huh? kaya naman pala galit na pusa ang picture mo, with matching machine gun pa! so funny!
spanking is good but should not be overdone. otherwise, it will be a form of simply just a punishment and not a learning experience for the child.
kg
July 26, 2009 at 4:42 pm
nakakatuwa ang pusa na yan no? maybe they should enlist cats in the military.
prinsesamusang
July 26, 2009 at 8:28 pm
I got plenty of spankings too, well too many, so I can totally relate to your way of thinking. And I feel the same way. I like the way you think! I hope you do know you’re not evil in any way LOL.
John
July 26, 2009 at 3:16 pm
but i like being evil LOL
prinsesamusang
July 26, 2009 at 8:28 pm
i never pictured you as evil.
but i am something of the same way. when somebody wrongs me, i never forget. i like to think it is because i trust people not to harm me.
but once i’ve learned *not* to trust someone, it’s impossible to regain that same level of trust again.
Seraphine
July 26, 2009 at 3:06 pm
i guess no matter how much people pretend that past is past nothing can ever be restored to its original state.
prinsesamusang
July 26, 2009 at 8:30 pm
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July 26, 2009 at 1:56 pm
We would probably have the same results. Lol. Seriously, I got a lot of spanking, too. And it’s made for public viewing by my super strict Lolo. Sobrang disciplinarian. But I thank my oldies for that.
witsandnuts
July 26, 2009 at 1:06 pm
there are benefits, and of course side effects.
prinsesamusang
July 26, 2009 at 8:30 pm