In Like Against In Love

Do not leave the one you love for the one that you like, it has been said. But what if you don’t like the one that you love anymore regardless of whether or not you like somebody else? This is a thought that skitters in and around my head. Actually, it is a concept I never imagined possible and it surprised me tremendously when I found out such feeling is in existence. Literally, I’m blown away.

What do you think causes such emotion? My sister reckons it’s about growing apart, or it’s just simply how life goes: some people are meant to come into your life but are meant to leave or you’re meant to walk away from them at some point.

I can’t honestly say as I have not formed a solid opinion on the matter but I find I’m leaning more towards fatigue. I mean, people get tired and sometimes the matter gets fixed with a little rest, or maybe a lot of rest, but that’s basically my drift as of the moment. It might change but if it does, I can only hope for the best.

If there’s one thing I know though is that such new emotions in uncharted territory may be scary, as in hell scary, but for what it’s worth, sometimes you need to feel these things to feel alive, don’t you? You might be barely breathing but hey, there’s always anti-asthma medications. 😉

Photo taken from here.



10 thoughts on “In Like Against In Love

  1. sa tingin ko kailangan laging may bago sa isang relationship to keep the fire burning.. how can you spend the rest of your life with the person that you are with kung mafa-fall out of love ka lang… make every moment special.. yan ang tingin ko ah..

  2. I recently watched an episode of Girls where one of the couples kind of grew apart. BF loved GF too much it was smothering and GF fell out of love. It was so sad because boy was yummy. I mean, come on. How can you fall out of love with that?

    I think people just naturally have a hard time sustaining a feeling. And it’s that desire to commit to a person, an emotion maybe, that makes love last longer. But what do I know, right? The last person I fell in love with left me to rot so yeah. #BitterOcampo

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