Day 10 already, woohoo! 😀 Here, it was a very long holiday because after Easter is the celebration of Bataan Day – it’s historical stuff. But anyway, I’d like to say that I had to think long and hard about today’s question. It is not because it is hard, it is just that I am not the type to do something like it so I had to really squeeze my brain to have something to say!
Day 10 — The last time I snooped into something I wasn’t supposed to (like a medicine cabinet in a friend’s bathroom), I found…
This hardly qualifies as snooping but a few months ago, I was looking at my feed on Facebook and I was surprised to see my sister’s friend hitting on my other sister. It was very subtle, but I knew. I have the knack for these kinds of things (and I was right too).
What I do not like about it is that my sister who is friends with this person has no clue that this person is hitting on my other sister. Am I making sense? To illustrate: Sister A is the friend of this person and Sister B is the one being hit on. Sister A has no clue what is going on. Did this make it clear?
I hate it. I’m not anti friend and sibling relationship but I don’t appreciate it that someone is kept in the dark, particularly when you are supposed to be friends, that sucks. In my book that is a mortal sin because friends are friends who are supposed to be truthful, damn it.
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Photo taken from here.
And now the secret is out! (insert evil laughter) But I guess whoever that guy is wants to make it as a surprise or something, or worse he’s little mister torpe and doesn’t have the guts to show that he likes Sister B. (or am I making things worse here?)
idk but when i saw that fb post i knew something was fishy!
wow you can figure all that from fb? that’s amazing.. and also why i dont like fb too much, stalking on it has a ton of potential haha. or actually- your intuition is incredible.
intuition yes, i was going to say that. i don’t use fb much too.
AMEN!
crazy, right? 🙂
I don’t think I would keep this to myself. Even if I had to get a third party involved to let Sister A know what is going on unless their relationship is just friends.
they’re just friends. but still a heads up is always polite right? but it’s cool. everyone knows now. 😛
If you were able to find out from your facebook feed, maybe Sister A was too?!? Facebook is the devil! I say it loud and proud. The very devil, I say!!
nope, she does not fb much but she did find out. i told her and other sister did too so i guess happily ever after. fingers crossed 😆
i agree, kahit ako ang nasa posisyon mo ganun din ang mararamdaman ko.
ang tanging naiisip ko na rationale dyan ay baka nasabi na dati ni Sister A sa kanyang friend na ayaw nyang paligawan si Sister B. O kaya may secret silang kasunduan. pero kahit ano pa, it hurts ha.
sa palagay ko medyo awkward talaga pag kaibigan mo tapos kapatid mo… kaya nga hindi ko matangap yung si harry potter at kapatid ni ron weasley eh. dapat si luna na lang!
hahaha! actually tumpak ka dyan. mas gusto ko ang character ni Luna mas intense.
plus she is cuter 🙂
i really really like the quote sa taas (in green) hehe! very true! 😉
story of my life 🙂
Wait so a male friend of Sister A is hitting on Sister B, and Sister A doesn’t know. But you, as Sister C, do? Am I right? Has Sister A ever expressed that she likes this person? As more than just a friend? Because then it would really suck, but otherwise I don’t think it’s a problem. It isn’t as though they’re secretly dating right? And if he’s hitting on her on a public FB page it isn’t as though he’s being untruthful about anything. If Sister A wanted to know or cared that much, she’d be able to see it the same way you did!
yes, i’m C. sister A did not express liking this person. i just felt it would be easier if the person simply stated to sister B that hey i like your sister than make it a surprise, you know? sister B would not see it on facebook like i did because she does not do facebook. idk this is really confusing for me too.
I don’t know, I still don’t see anything wrong with it. Sometimes when you like somebody you aren’t ready to advertise it and you just want to see how things go for yourself. If he likes Sister B and tells A, then I’m almost positive she would let something slip, making the whole dynamic extremely awkward. Not to mention if your sister doesn’t like him back..he might ruin his friendship with your other sister in the process. I don’t think it’s an easy decision to risk that esp. if they’re close.
well it can be like that too. idk i just don’t want anyone to ruin anything, i guess.
Good luck, I hope things pan out smoothly in the end for you and your sisters then ❤
thanks, it’s actually all pretty cool now. everyone is aware. 🙂
Ahaha just in the past day? That was quick!
no 😆 this happened last month, i think.
Agreed…how close are they?
very close!
OMG, you really are blogging daily 🙂
I don’t open cabinets in houses I go to, but I look at friend’s friends photos on facebook. I mean nothing of it, I just love photos.
i am, pretty gnarly right? i understand where you are coming from. maybe i’d do the same thing if i was big on facebook.
It’s worse since you have to keep your cool. And let things unfold as they should..
true. it’s so annoying!
.. your feline claws can be of good use for vermins (like.. sister a’s friend? hehe.).
agreed rob. i’d pick them up with my claws and eat them alive 😆