I hardly qualify to shed dating advice for I’ve been dating the same person for nearly a decade (and I’m not complaining), but earlier I came across some good texting stuff and I thought it might help you, in case you are still out there staring at your damn phone for all eternity, wondering why your current flavor of the month did not reply, or worse you haven’t sent anything for the person to reply to. 😯 Frustrating, isn’t it? God, there are really big perks from being off the market…
Anyhow, here are 10 things that might stir your crush’s interest in you through text messaging. I’m not certain why all of these work, but thinking about them makes me believe they will work. I don’t know, you can try it out, and maybe let me know. 😆 Good luck!
10 Ways to Text your Crush
- Keep it simple and casual. Go with one question per message. The last thing you want is to bombard the other person on the line with questions that leaves him or her feeling like he or she is getting interviewed for a job or something.
- Keep your messages shorter.
- Don’t wait over the phone for them to reply. Fire a text and go do something else. And no, obsessing is not allowed while you are doing something else.
- If you get a reply, don’t hit back instantly. Take as much time as he or she did to respond. This gives you ample time to think about what to say too!
- Before you send anything, read it again and make sure you are projecting casual. At all costs, avoid embarrassing messages! This might be arbitrary but do try your best.
- Never give a boring response. If your crush asks you a question that you know will elicit it, do not reply.
- Don’t answer all their questions if they ask more than one in a text message.
- If you are texting a girl, forget smiley faces. Don’t use them – ever.
- Don’t send two messages back to back without a response for at least 48 hours.
- Never ask for a date on the first text. That is called suicide.
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hehehe…ayos sa rules…hmmm…excited pa naman ako magreply agad kapag nagtext/reply si crush…dapat pala i-delay ng onti…i-save muna sa draft hahaha 😉
yes, that is most essential. ano siya tumama sa lotto? 😀
oo nga eh. buti nalang nabasa ko ito hahaha
well i hope it works well for you! 😀
i disagree – on so many levels
nyahaha
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you are the exception to the rule. even if you do everything wrong i’m certain you’ll still get the girl.
Pambihira, pati pala texting your crush may rules? anong nangyari sa kalayaan?
( nakikigulo lang Prinsesa! )
epektibo yan, para sa pag unlad! 😀
hahahha…at para talaga sa pag-unlad…
I nominated u sa versatile blogger award ha?
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already on your site actually. teka ha comment lang ako 😀
hihihi visited your site earlier… I have to read because I want to post three of your posts that I really enjoyed…
ayun na 🙂
personal posts 😀
picked out the posts that I think mirror you… 🙂
they do, great choices. 🙂
*thumbs up
*salute
*wave with flying kiss
naiisip ko si potsquared sa comment mo 😀
wahahahaha sa kanya ko nga rin nakuha yan… pauso ang lolo…este lola pala….hmmmmm nalilito ako!
hayaan na natin, trending naman eh! 😀
Ahahahaha! Cool! Naaalala ko dati kung pano ako makipagtext sa mga crush ko, 😀
Hello!
ganiyan ba din yung ginagawa mo o may mas expert tips ka pa?
Ahaha! Hindi ko alam kung expert tips ba yung naisip ko pero feeling ko effective naman 😀
WAG KANG MASYADONG MAG GM (group message) – lalo na kung sunud sunod, nagmumukha ksing masyado papansin.
WAG NA WAG KANG MAGKUKUNWARING WRONG SEND – kasi gasgas na yan 😀 okay lang kung once, pero kung lagi, aba. mag-isip ka na ng ibang style.
hahaha!
nice tips! oo gasgas na nga yung wrong send! 😆
You do realize that that first image was made for me, right? 😆
I still don’t have his number so we only talk over IM in the office. I am guilty of number 4 though. But he knows I am as busy as he is so I guess it’s okay. Please let it be okay. Please let us get married and have children.
sa palagay ko marami namang ganiyan talaga ang peg sa buhay 😉 break your habit for number four. he should be the one getting anxious over your replies, not the other way around! tandaan mo, isa kang dyosa 😉
The problem is, he doesn’t realize na isa akong Dyosa! At least, not yet! 😆
basta galingan mo lang, text lang ng text. ay lintek baka gusto mo hingin muna yung number, wala pa nga pala. 😀
Always, ALWAYS, talk about the weather.
Example.
You: Ang lamig ng panahon no?
Crush: Oo nga, ang sarap mag-kape.
You: Tara kape tayo.
have i mentioned, i love talking about the weather? but i did not see it like this. it makes sense now though how things play out for me 😀
love guru ka na rin!!! ahahahahaha!
dami ko namang talents? 😆
talentado ka talaga pm!!
sabi ko na eh special child talaga ako eh.
mabuhay ang mga special child… nagpromil ka ba nung bata ka?
yes, seriously.
wow! ako kasi nido lang ata yung pinapadede ng nanay ko sa akin, o di kaya yung pinagpakuluan ng bigas… nakikinita kita na kasama mo yung commercial ng promil.. yung “the sun is the center of the solar system.. moving around them are the planets..” ano ba pangalan nung batang yun..
shaira luna? di ako sigurado… failing na yata ang photographic memory ko, feeling lang 😆
ayun!! shaira luna nga… ang nasa isip ko si shaina magdayao.. kaya parang mali…
ano pa nga ba buwal tawa na naman 😆
hahahaha. you just gave me an idea for my next post. nyahahaha.
natawa ako sa ‘mental relationship’ hahaha
sino ba kamental relationship mo, les?
si Emma Stone. hahhaha. tsaka may mga flings pa yan. hahaha
okay ah, iba pa yung mental relationship sa flings!
I used to put some smiley pa naman. tsk tsk tsk. Kaya pala…. hahaha!
sumbong kita sa girlfriend mo!
Hahaha binabawi ko na hehehehe!
wala recorded na! 😀
“Dear crush, we have sex for so many times in my head!” opps! 😀 ahahaa. I think i might like to try this NOW! right NOW. Thanks, PM! 😀
well that progressed quickly good luck! umepekto ba?
haayyyy. hopeless na PM! But I won’t give up. 😀
go, go, go!
“you are having a mental relationship with a celebrity who doesn’t even know you exist” — GUILTY…so many times in the past! haha!
ako may mental relationship kay michael phelps, kg, four years na kami 😆